Allow us to introduce to you the Caribiana. A beautifully handcrafted teak boat that holds 8, plenty for an impromptu party, with hopefully enough power to get you there (25-90 horsepower), and small enough to easily maneuver your way around the regatta.

At a brisk $35K, this fully customizable option is the perfect boat for quick swim off the cost of Nice, or an impromptu ocean get-together with some of your closest acquaintances.

Get at it, you sly fox.

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For those ready to clip the cable clip, one box worth exploring is the Roku 2.

Rolex Submariner

One watch that reignited out passion for horology this week is the Rolex Submariner. Five years ago it was considered too simple by many. It looked shy and meek next to those ubiquitous 50mm Breitlings, yet a few years later, the submariner remains king. It’s confident elegance and charming charisma has withstood the test of time, remaining relatively unchanged since the 1960′s (Don’t kill us Ben), this iconic classic will be just as gorgeous 10 years from now, as it is today.

If you’re going to invest in a time piece, or get one as a gift, you could do a lot worse than this.

BUY IT Rolex Submariner $5,000

1.) Recognize these opportunities, and

2.) Properly negotiating a win-win situation for both sides.

Negotiation is one the most essential survival skills a modern man can hope to acquire. It is an essential skill for sales, your career, and even your love life.

And there is no such thing as a no sale call. A sale is made on every call you make. Either you sell the client some stock or he sells you a reason he can’t. Either way a sale is made, the only question is who is gonna close? You or him? Now be relentless, that’s it, I’m done.-JIM YOUNG “Boiler Room”

A successful negotiation ends up serving both you, and your partner. (We call them partner as opposed to adversary or opponent, because a successful negotion should end up as a win-win). Here is the one tip we feel is critical to any successful negotiation.

Focus on your partner’s point of view

There is nothing more critical to a successful negotation, than to understand exactly what your partner in negotiation is thinking.

I once knew a car salesman that was absolutely ruthless when it came to his sales. He worked in a Southern California Toyata dealearship, and he was notorious for his diabolical deals, and excellent salesmanship. He once convinced someone to pay $700 a month for a car that should not have cost anyone, even with the worst credit, more than $400/month. He was a legend at his office. However one day he was duped.

Recon

A customer came in, and instead of focusing on strict pricing, he engaged, and even befriended this salesman! He came in and spent a few hours with the salesman, and eventually began talking about his job. The man was very open and honest about this own salary, debts, and even included some self-depracating humor, which disarmed the salesman. So when he asked him how much commission was typically made on each sale, the salesman, although reluctantly, felt obligated to reveal this information. He explained how most commision comes from not just the sale of the car, but the sale of extra add ons. He even revealed that they would get a bonus if they reached certain milestones for selling a certain number of cars per month.

Execution

With this information, the man took his time, and would visit the same salesman every few weeks, kick a few tires, and convince him he was ready to buy, as long as they could agree on a price, which somehow they could never agree to. He would then casually ask him, how many cars he sold this month. Gloatingly, the salesman would oblige, and proudfully show off his accomplishment. They had now developed a relationship, so the compliments came naturally.

Well, on the second month, the man came in on the last day of the month, a tuesday night. Store was close to closing, and as luck would have it, the salesman was down 1 car in order to reach his quota, something that would give him a huge bonus on his next paycheck. The average person walking into a dealership would never be privy to this information. So, the man did not discuss the details of the car, only enticing the salesman with the prospect of reaching his quota, and getting his bonus. He focused on his partner’s point of view.

Results

After a little back and forth, and even a threat or two of walking out, he walked out of that dealership with not only the lowest deal in the salesman’s history, but also the dealerships. The amount of time invested, the perfect timing executed by the man, and the man’s patience all led to him saving thousands of dollars-buying the car well under invoice.

The man got his car at a better price than he wanted, the salesman got his bonus and his quota, and both parties were happy.

You see if you focus on the partner’s point of view instead of your own, you can accomplish much more and end up with a win-win situation.

Oh by the way, when the first bill came, he paid for the entire car cash, effectively saving him another few thousand dollars in interest.

Win. Win.

Sex on Wheels

This car is the ultimate blend of speed and sport. Blending speed and refinement, sexiness and grandeur, professionalism and all out maniacalism, this car is the ultimate king’s car. It looks just as appropriate at the board room as it does on Miami Beach with a party in your backseat.

The 2012 BMW M5 ($118,306) is ready to get you and up to four passengers to your destination in comfort and style — quickly. Very Quickly. Unleashing an all-new twin-turbo V8 good for 560hp, a 0-62 mph time of 4.4 seconds and a top speed of 190. Other features include a new body treatment, electronics galore, a seven-speed double clutch transmission, 19-inch light alloy M-exclusive wheels, and — thankfully — astonishingly high 28.5 mpg fuel economy. I don’t know about you, but this car would definitely have us running around like a mad man (skinny tie, mod suit, banging all the secretaries in the office.) Enjoy. Something tells us your other car won’t mind the company.

Butter Leather. Whip out the biscuits.

If you try racing this car. Get used to this view.

This is why...

Better park it in the garage. This view has a tendency to instill jealousy.

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For everyone who wasn't born with a giant claw.

I’m big on knives and I really like a good number of Spyderco products, but one in particular stands out as just the most bad ass. The Spyderco Civilian is that bad ass knife. It reminds me of another Spyderco product, the Harpybut the Civilian is longer and more wicked looking. Spyderco was actually approached in the 1990s by a specialized branch of U.S. law enforcement about making a knife for their undercover agents, allowing them to carry weapons in situations where a gun would have been too noticeable.

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The Civilian is Spyderedged(serrated in the Spyderco pattern) and is really great at slicing. This type of knife is perfect for slicing through fishing line, rope, netting, giant spiderwebs, seat belts, things like that. It rides deep in the pocket thanks to a custom curved black clip and is mounted for tip-down carry. We also can’t overlook that the overall design of the blade is scary as hell. It looks like a demon eagle talon or something along those lines. And intimidation is half the fight. Visually, its also beautiful. I really enjoy the very deep curves and the fullness at the belly. I also like the classic little Spyderco hole in the blade, which makes it much easier to open the blade without taking away from the aesthetics. The blade is usually available in limited quantities and costs around $270. I would advise anyone who purchases this blade to handle it very carefully because it can really leave a nasty cut.

Buy it here.

Obviously you’ve given your fair share to charity. You’ve bought all your family members cars and cribs. You donated heavily to The Haute Spot for giving you hours of entertainment. In other words, you’ve taken care of your priorities. So now it’s time to treat yourself. Now it’s time to take care of numero uno.

Sure you can go out and buy a Ferrari. Sure you can go out and get yourself a new watch. Sure you can finally take that trip to Italy you’ve always wanted. But nothing says “I F**Kin Made It” quite like a Miami mansion that even Tony Montana himself would be jealous of.

We just went from 6 to 12

Nestled in the heart of Coral Gables (Miami’s Jungle of Luxury) lies an estate begging for scantily clad models partying in the pool, expensive german, italian, and swedish engineeringparked out front, and a boat (see: yacht) parked in the back that would make T-Payne drop his auto-tuner.

Ivy League

Gentlemen we would like to introduce to you- The Nebuchadnezzar (That’s not what’s it called, but that’s what we would call it). But with 8 bedrooms, 12 bathrooms, two floors, a bar, 20,000 of sq feet, a basketball court, game room, 6 car garage, unrestricted ocean access, and 3 of the best acres of land money can buy- you can call it Eden for all we care.

Who needs a vacation, when this is your backyard

Yeah, just because.

The gym you'll never use. If you don't change the T.V. We'll judge you.

For all your Ruth's Cris Take Out

A kitchen this grand, deserves hiring a chef

A fireplace? In Miami? Sure, why not.

Never mind the ocean views

I've seen a room like this before. Yeah. It was in Versailles. It was Napoleon's. You might have heard of him

Really? Is that all really necessary?

Hotel Lobby? No just my hallway.

Your sports cove/pool room isn't complete without some African War Memorabilia.

Ok so our friends at Hummingbird Financial ran some numbers and assuming that even if you put the standard 20% down ($10 Million!), and had a perfect credit score (you better), you still would need to pay a heart-wrenching $221,630 a month! For 30 years!

Here’s to dreaming:

You better invite us over for tea

BUY IT 11 Casuarina Concourse, Coral Gables, FL $49,000,000

Whiskey

Ever see John Wayne take shooters that were fluorescent pink? No. Why is that? Because he drank whiskey instead. Whiskey, apart from exciting the mind and accentuating the taste buds, is absolutely fantastic. Now you may be asking yourself, “What the hell does that mean?” Well, let me tell you. Whiskey, or whisky, has many different classifications based on the type of grain mash. My personal favorite is Bourbon Whiskey, which is an American Whiskey consisting of at least 51% corn. September 2007 was declared by Congress to be National Bourbon Heritage Month. Is there a more American beverage? Hell no. I recommend Bulleit or Knob Creek, but the great thing about any alcohol is trying new ones. Find a small batch bourbon of your liking, there are a ton out there.

Oh yea, drink it straight.

Vodka and Gin

Perhaps the best go to spirits, vodka and gin go great with a lot of mixers.

Aren’t martinis for chicks you might be asking?

Why don’t you ask James Bond and his hundreds of illegitimate children. Martinis are great in the right atmosphere. Don’t be the one asshole in the dive bar that orders the martini. That’s just common knowledge. Vodka and gin both go great with tonic water. They are both great cocktails and go down easy. You might even impress the boss with the right choice of top shelf gin.

Tequila

My father once told me that margaritas are God’s gift to man. I wholeheartedly agree with him. Not only are they delicious, but you can drink them all day. Yeah, I said it all day, as in 9 AM to 3 AM. Surely there must be a downside; they cannot be perfect, right? Wrong, they are perfect. Just be sure to mix them well; meaning very strong.

So enjoy being a grown up, and drink something other than plastic bottle vodka infused with Jolly Ranchers.

Boys will be boys...

Boys will be boys, but being knotty just might be fashionable some day; the day you receive an invitation to a black-tie, or other formal affair. What you wear is just as important as how you wear it, whether attending a wedding, funeral, or crashing a Presidential State Dinner. Looking dapper and debonair, with a touch of culture and refinement, is the goal of every modern-day gent when faced with such an occasion. With this in mind, what’s all the fuss over 50+ inches of silk, and what’s with all those knots, anyway?  

The necktie, along with its forerunner the cravat, has been a predominately male fashion expression for centuries. Its origins can be traced to both military and royal attire of the early 17th century. Although an important piece of fashion history, there is no mandate that your formal ensemble conjure up memories of your father’s matching tie, handkerchief, and sock combinations. 

• The conservative look outranks all others within the professional arena. Keep things simple, while in a Corporate Environment or during a Job Interview, by wearing a dark suit, white dress shirt, and the classic, solid, navy-blue, or burgundy tie. Although a slight variation of tie color is acceptable, and simple prints are tolerated, avoid the temptation for bright colors or busy novelty prints at all costs; especially during the holiday season. 

•  When making a tie decision for Weddings, or other jubilant Celebrations, proceed with caution. Oftentimes, there are unspoken rules of etiquette for guests at a wedding, or other formal engagement. If you are not in the wedding party, pay special attention to your invitation, and any attire requests from your host. If the celebration is a black-tie affair, keep it simple and go with tradition. In the absence of such a request, bear in mind that weddings generally have a color theme. Grooms frequently choose the tie colors of white, silver, gray, sage green, pink, lavender, yellow, and orange. If you are not privy to this information, stick with basic tie colors and dark suits rather than making an unsolicited fashion statement. Although an Ascot tie, or other formal neckwear is in order, be careful not to upstage the groom.   

• Without question, Funerals are a definite black-tie affair. Stick with a black, dark blue or gray suit with a tie of similar color.  Enough said.  

• For Dating or Romantic occasions, feel free to liven up your fashion ensemble with a dose of imagination. Create a look that is warm, inviting, and friendly, as there is no need for conservatism here. Break the monotony of tradition with a splash of vibrant color, a unique print or pattern, a distinctive tie or Ascot pin, wearing a decorative vest in lieu of a jacket, or a variation of the necktie altogether.

Whatever you decide, make certain that your apparel is clean, pressed, and properly fitted. To the latter, every gent will know his measurements (neck, chest, sleeve, waist, and inseam), and is re-sized from time-to-time, to account for changes in his physique.  

Lastly, if you’re the uncomplicated type, don’t fret over the Windsor knot, Half-Windsor knot, Pratt/Shelby knot, Four-in-Hand knot, Small knot, Prince Albert knot, Cross knot, Ascot (Ruche, Cocolupa, or Naud Gordien) knot, Jabot, Bow Tie, and which knot, not to wear. Ties of the clip-on and pre-tied variety are fashion, that is fortunately made simple. 

Now that you’re all tied up, could there be an additional benefit of wearing a necktie? It should come as no surprise that, for women, there’s something inexplicably titillating about a well-groomed gent in a tie; the three Cs to be exact.  If you could read her mind, she’d share that you appear to be in Control, exhibit a Command presence, and convey a sense of Confidence, all by wearing a tie!  Not to mention the extra points earned for your quotient of appeal.   So what are you waiting for? Enjoy any formal event while looking your best.  

Don’t be afraid to tie the knot. Wear it – a necktie – the modern gent’s fashion accessory. 

-K. Walsh  

Know your nose

Were the rules of attraction made to be broken? If not broken, perhaps, enhanced? Who’s to say, but one thing is for certain: finding the right mix of sensuality, and pheromone, is the kind of thing genies have socked away in bottles for centuries. What makes women find a particular man desirable? Every man has a special ‘something’ that makes him unique, be it charm, bicep dimension, the proverbial shoe size, or the PIN number to his debit card. The list is exhaustive, so, how will you set yourself apart? 

You won’t find the answer in your father’s Old Spice, or even in the old school of conventional masculine wisdom. Although your heart’s settled on a favorite aromatic love tonic, does it truly define you? Does it drive the woman in your life passionately crazy, or does it drive her away? 

Give yourself a competitive edge, in the game of love, with the perfect scent for a sophisticated gent such as yourself.  Determine whether you prefer a strong and robust scent or a subtle, yet, clean and cool one. Whichever appeals to your senses, understand why this is so, by getting to know your nose.  From Giorgio Armani to Givenchy, and Ralph Lauren to Bvlgari, with so many scents from which to choose, how will you best decide? 

It’s in the notes. To be precise, the composition of any fine fragrance (male or female) is such that it will feature three distinct elements, or notes (top/head, middle/heart, and base), each unfolding over time; creating a symphony for the senses. Top notes offer an introductory scent that tends to be lighter, yet is highly volatile. Chances are you purchased your favorite scent based on this particular note. Top notes evaporate quickly, so allow a fragrance time to linger.  You will soon discover that the best of it has only begun. 

Enter the middle note. Often referred to as the heart of the fragrance, middle notes are strong and enduring. Remember that you are unique, and no two men will wear the same fragrance alike. When testing a fragrance, wear it no less than 15 minutes. In time, it will emit a signature aroma, as the elements fuse with your body’s natural chemistry. 

Last, but not least, are the base notes. These are the strongest ingredients of a fragrance, and serve as a fixative melding all other notes together. The base note provides for extended wear, of a fragrance, and prolongs its aromatic properties. 

All scents, from the impostor to the designer, belong to one of four distinct categories including Fresh, Floral, Oriental, and Woody (with a central trans-category of Aromatic Fougère). That’s right!  Contrary to popular belief, all fragrances are, in fact, cut from the same cloth.

By concentration, cologne contains 2 – 5% essential oils, and fragrance compounds, in contrast to perfumes, which contain upwards of 20%.  As nature’s perfect stimulants, essential oils induce certain euphoric and relaxing sentiments. Common notes used in male fragrances include Bergamot, Cedar, Ginger, Lavender, Neroli, Patchouli, Sandalwood, and Vetiver. It’s no accident that these are woody, aromatic, tranquil, and soothing. 

So what did Giovanni Paolo Feminis know that the rest of us would pay an arm and leg?  He knew that men deserve special recognition in their quest to enhance the rules of attraction.  In answering this masculine battle cry, Giovanni developed the perfect Scent for a Gent – his 1709 romantic elixir – cologne. Thus, the contemporary concept of male fashion cologne was born. The rest of this story can be found on Saks’ Fifth Avenue, your bedroom armoire, and in every department store worldwide.                                                                                                          

SCENT hints for a GENT:

1. Determine which notes are in your favorite cologne, or other fragrance.
2. Score some free samples online, or the next time you purchase at a department store.
3. Test no more than three scents at a time; any more will cloud your sense of smell.
4. The smell of coffee beans will clear the sinuses; the sales representative will have some.
5. Apply cologne to clean skin, most commonly after a shower.
6. Cologne should be worn on the body; hotspots include wrists, neck, and behind ears.
7. Rubbing wrists together will crush, or breakdown, a scent more rapidly. 
8. Spray cologne into the air, and walk into the mist for even distribution.
9. Store cologne in a cool, dry, place away from direct sunlight.
10. Properly stored cologne will last approximately three years. 

Now that you’ve got the basics, a little trial, and error, is in order. You hereby have permission to slather, spritz, and douse… within reason.

-K. Walsh